Sunday, January 24, 2016

Dont prepare the future for your child. Prepare your child for the future.



What makes me particularly happy that I am my son's mother, is the fact that we understand each other in every way. There's never an instance when Gabriel would whine because I asked him to do some household chore. I see to it that we talk about everything, including the fact that I make him learn to do the household chores. "I'm doing this because I love you. I want to prepare you for the future." I always tell him that and he would embrace me and kiss me and say, "I know Nanay, and I understand." It makes me feel so blessed to get that kind of assurance from a 10-year-old son whose priority is to play, play, play and play. Fellow mothers are often surprised when I tell them Gabriel can already cook rice, some simple dish like hotdog, fish, he washes dishes, helps me in the laundry, mops the floor, fixes the bed. Well, I was 5 when I learned to cook rice!

Why do you grow up so fast???



I savored each step,
to where you are now,
to where you want to be,
to how you want to be.
I felt each sigh,
each deep of a breath,
each whisper of the wind
through your hair,
your face,
it's life...
you are life.
It's been a while
since you were tiny
in my hands, frail but alive
like the breaking of dawn,
full of promise
of new beginning.
It's been a while
since I last sang you some lullaby,
the songs that you loved
that brought you to heights
and peaks of dreaming
and believing
that life has got so much for you
and me.
You are enough for me.


Character building